What we are

If you are 25 and above and still a virgin, you are cursed.”

That’s what a lady said.
She said, “Something must be wrong with you.”
She said, “It means you lack the ability to attract males.”

And I laughed
because NO SIS. We are not cursed.
We are not faulty.

You cannot judge our worth by the number of men who want our bodies.
You cannot measure a destiny by the desire of lust driven men.
You cannot define a queen by the cravings of men who have no throne.

When Scripture spoke about what my life would attract,
it did NOT say,
“You will attract many men who want your body.”

No.
It said:

Gentiles will come to your LIGHT,
and kings to the BRIGHTNESS of your rising.

Meaning
My life is wired to attract nations and kings.

So if you think being a virgin at 25 means we don’t attract men,
hear this loud and clear:

We are not a magnet for lust.
We are a magnet for possibilities.

We attract purpose.
We attract favor.
We attract prophetic alignments.
We attract kings who respect oil, not only curves.
We attract kingdom men whose eyes recognize calling, not just skin.

Purity is not a curse.
Purity is not “nobody wants you.”
Purity is not evidence of lack.

Purity is evidence of weight.
Purity is proof you are being preserved for a realm where ordinary men cannot enter.

Purity is confirmation that your spirit carries something too costly to be casually touched.

Because let’s be real the real curse is a generation that measures a woman’s value
by how many men want to sleep with her.

We do not bow to that standard.
We do not subscribe to that script.

We are women who carry heaven’s voltage.
We were built to attract glory, not games.

So mark this down:

Being 25 and a virgin is not a curse.
it is a consecration.
It is a seal.

We are not behind.
We are set apart.
We are not undesirable.
We are spiritually radiant.
We are not lacking attraction.
We are carrying a brightness that intimidates darkness.

We are not cursed.
We are chosen.
We are not lacking.
We are LOADED.
We are not magnets for lust.
We are magnets for KINGS, for LIGHT

Achebe

If you could meet a historical figure, who would it be and why?

Guess it would be Chinua Achebe.

Probably ask him what inspired him to write the legendary novel “things fall apart”

Cos right now in Nigeria, things are really falling apart.

Pray for us. The killings in Nigeria is getting too much especially the killing of christians. May God help us.

Place to live in

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

I’ll rather love to be in Canada

Nice place, by the way

Skincare

What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can?

It’s the part where I get to go through the ritual of skincare before going to bed. To me, it is both time and energy consuming.

I get to wash my face and then quickly dry with a face towel. After which I’ll add my toner and mosturizer to my face.

Serums and face oil comes next. I don’t add sunscreen at night, only during the day.

It’s something that’s working on my face and giving my face the glow it should get but I still want to skip it if I can.

Birthday girl

Dearest Miracle Fabian, you’re so big and beautiful
See how far you have come in life
You’re the real definition of a girl who’s smart and brave
You make the world a better place to live in just by that beautiful smile you put on your face all the time
You don’t let things bother you at all, see the way you smile your way out of problems, you don’t even feel stressed at all because you know God has your back
You’re so you, ever simple and unique
You handle things so efficiently and effectively.
This is just the beginning
Today marks the celebration of a sweet soul and an amazing personality
Happiest birthday Utibe Miracle Fabian

abbasdaughter #akwaibomite #resilientgirl

A kid at heart

What does it mean to be a kid at heart?

Being a “kid at heart” means embracing a youthful and playful spirit, regardless of age. It describes someone who:
Characteristics

1. Maintains curiosity: Remains curious and open to new experiences.
2. Enjoys simplicity: Finds joy in simple things, like playing games, watching cartoons, or reading children’s books.
3. Is playful: Engages in activities that bring fun and laughter.
4. Sees wonder: Appreciates the magic and beauty in life.
5. Is spontaneous: Acts on impulse and isn’t afraid to be silly.
   Benefits
6. Stress relief: Helps reduce stress and anxiety.
7. Creativity boost: Fosters imagination and creativity.
8. Positive attitude: Encourages optimism and enthusiasm.
9. Social connections: Can help build relationships and friendships.

Being a kid at heart is about embracing your inner child and finding joy in life’s simple pleasures.

THE INITIATOR BRIDGE:

EXTENDING THE FIRST SMILE

All growth occurs when we are uncomfortable. So, act first, then feel the benefits of your actions. In connection’s dance, the initiator takes the first step, offering a smile, word, or gesture. This courage breaks barriers, setting ripples of warmth in motion. One small act can change the world of another person … and our world also. By acting first, we craft bridges to others’ worlds. Connection flows where someone dares to begin. Be the first to:
✏️ smile at someone as you approach
✏️ wave to acknowledge them
✏️ say “hello”
✏️ introduce yourself.
Giving someone your attention is a great gift. When you look directly at someone, it shows that you genuinely care and are interested in what they have to say. So, when you are in a line, talk to the people in front of you and behind you. When you are in a restaurant, on a bus, at a playground, in an elevator, at an airport, in a physician’s waiting room, reach out to connect and explore those in your space. Who knows, you might be introducing yourself to your new best friend. Build your connection muscle, and you will enrich your life and the lives of those around you.

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Meditate on this and remain blessed.

Much love❣️

Wishes

You have three magic genie wishes, what are you asking for?

All I can ever wish for is for my dreams to come true.

Dreams of impacting lives both financially and spiritually.

Dreams of being financially stable enough to cater for the needs of people around me.

Dreams of being so wise enough to create inventions and God given ideas and innovations.

Dreams of being so successful that when I’m gone, generations to come will talk about me and my achievements.

Dreams of going to spend eternity with my father in heaven when I’m gone.

Moon

How much would you pay to go to the moon?

WordPress, this question 😅😅

Well, to start with, I wouldn’t pay a dime to go to the moon because I don’t even have the intention to do that.

But if you ask me how much would I pay to watch the moon all night long, I’ll gladly pay any amount just to sit quietly beside a serene beach watching the beautiful moon all night long.

Much love 💕❣️

Medicine

What alternative career paths have you considered or are interested in?

I’ve always considered being a medical surgeon all my life.

I could go into the medicine field full study if I have the chance to.

Ever since I read Ben Carson’s Think Big, I’ve always been fascinated about his gifted hands especially with the Siamese twins.

Since then, it has been my dream to treat people who go through brain tumors or any illness associated with the brain. I so much loved how he treated Miranda using hemispherectomy (a rare surgery that either removes or disconnects one half of the brain from the other). 

I cried with joy as I read about how she woke up talking and doing the things she couldn’t do before. A rare miracle too.

I’ll always be ready to follow the paths of medicine whenever the opportunity comes.